Big law spouse question

How do you not feel completely worn out with young children? Husband (associate) works crazy hours, is always stressed, works past child bedtime so I do child bedtimes solo, I eat dinner alone half the week, and he works a lot of weekends. One toddler and a second child on the way. I’m debating quitting my job because physically and mentally it does not feel like there is enough time in the day to work full time and manage childcare, household duties, etc. Does it get easier if they make partner? Tips for getting through this period?

Author: Sea_Airport5312